tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-286902972024-02-28T12:00:44.416-08:00Hi Raman Here!I have a completely different opinion about life.I like to live life with enjoyment and I don't fear God Because I know what I am doing is always right.Because nobody will decide whether I am right or wrong, i am the best judger of myself. I know if I am thinking right then I am surely right. Important thing about me is that I don't believe in worshipping GOD but what i do believe is in Karma........Ramanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08367518657994244207noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28690297.post-48518802532792594432010-09-01T11:34:00.000-07:002010-09-01T11:39:54.787-07:00I was a Faliure<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I had lot dreams since my childhood. Even though I used to heard "Jack of all trades master of none", still I have lived most of the dreams. I choose to become "Jack". I have different kind of prospective towards life. I never believe life after death, I believe I have only one chance and I have to live that. During starting day of my school life I want to invent something (A machine which didn't require fuel).My friends most of the time found me around j</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="white-space: nowrap;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">unk dealer shop, I have collected lot machine parts(still i have those at my home).</span></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="white-space: nowrap;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"> I was never success. As every failure has excuse, so I have too like never got </span></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="white-space: nowrap;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">guidance/motivation etc etc. </span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; white-space: nowrap;">I had one more interest cricket. I always try to do </span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; white-space: nowrap;">batting and learn only one shot on the leg side towards downhill. </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="white-space: nowrap;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">There I easily </span></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="white-space: nowrap;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="white-space: nowrap;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">got 2 runs.but when I was 8th standard everyone was fed up of my shots and </span></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="white-space: nowrap;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">they change the rule, </span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; white-space: nowrap;">if anyone hit downhill he 'll be out and my career as a </span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; white-space: nowrap;">batsman got end. I have started doing bowling but I become </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; white-space: nowrap;">famous for my </span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; white-space: nowrap;">wide balls. </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; white-space: nowrap;">Even I didn't get selected in school team. I have practice a lot with </span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; white-space: nowrap;">stones easily available </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; white-space: nowrap;">at himachal. I played university level and kind of national </span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; white-space: nowrap;">in college. I have one more </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="white-space: nowrap;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">interest during school music </span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="white-space: nowrap;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I wanted to play any </span></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="white-space: nowrap;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">music instrument but i didn't get place </span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="white-space: nowrap;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">in school band. I have practice </span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="white-space: nowrap;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">harmonium</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="white-space: nowrap;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"> </span></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="white-space: nowrap;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="white-space: nowrap;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">at home </span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; white-space: nowrap;">and played in instrumental music competition.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; white-space: nowrap;"> I was champion in </span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; white-space: nowrap;">basket ball during school time but got failed to </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; white-space: nowrap;">enter in college team. </span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; white-space: nowrap;">I had one more interest in theater and I was fail in my first audition during school </span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; white-space: nowrap;">time by luck the </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="white-space: nowrap;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">main character got ill and I got the </span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="white-space: nowrap;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">opportunity. I still remember </span></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="white-space: nowrap;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">that day Judge recognize me as a best actor after that </span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; white-space: nowrap;">I never look back </span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; white-space: nowrap;">and write/direct/act in lot of plays. After my schooling I was interested to </span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; white-space: nowrap;">choose some kind of creative </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; white-space: nowrap;">field for me but I forgot I am in India here </span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; white-space: nowrap;">kid hardly do what he actually want to do in life. I have accepted the </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; white-space: nowrap;">decision </span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; white-space: nowrap;">of my parents and start doing engineering. I hardly get interest in this and </span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; white-space: nowrap;">giving 48 extra paper </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; white-space: nowrap;">is the proof. After doing Engineering I was fully confident </span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; white-space: nowrap;">that will never got a job. I had given lot of interviews </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; white-space: nowrap;">and got failed in 85 interviews </span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; white-space: nowrap;">initially(call center, Software testing, designing) but never try for the programming.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="white-space: nowrap;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I know that i don't know anything about that but now I am working as a </span></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="white-space: nowrap;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">senior software engineer doing programming. </span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; white-space: nowrap;">I don't know what exactly was my </span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="white-space: nowrap;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I will continue this by believing "We have only one chance to live, do whatever </span></span><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">I have hardly watched any cricket after that even stopped playing too. After coming into IT my state of mind become “What is cricket?”. When team members discuss about cricket, I laughed on them. IT professional's life is Computer, internet, mobile and tv (for girls specially, how they can stop watching saas, bahu). So one day I was doing the multitasking youtube and changing the tv cannel, I was watching some funny video and parrallely on tv Sachin was hitting 6-4 and finally he make it to 200. I was influenced by his performance and take stupid oath that I will also do 100. So I have started with the push up and give up after 10. After getting flunked in push up I stopped thinking about physical work. I was keep on thinking what I can do better in which field I can make 100. My mind made list of the things which I usually do. Drinking 100 beer forgot about it, 100 km walk no way, continuously spend 100 hrs on Farm-ville not make sense. In this thinking process I 've met my friend Suraj and I know he always keep some filmy ideas in his mind.He shows his fan loyality and suggest me Sharukh's idea (Rab ne bana dee Jodi) ate 100 golgappe(pani-puri). Even though I don't like Sharukh but I thought “Bure time mai gadhe ko mama bana lete hai”. But this was again fail after eating 20 my stomach was going to explode and I was start feeling like ill as again and again golgappe wala using his dirty hand in dirty water. I gave up again. Taruna came with her absurd idea, give me 100 Puma' s bag. Which must be rejected and certainly it was. Veeru bhai said eat 100 icecream, Johari suggest 100 disprine, Monika talked about hundred samoshe. For my doubt in her idea she was even ready to bet on this that she will complete 101. I trusted on her stamina and give up from this idea too. Now I was in a big tension in my subconscious mind. One day on you tube I saw Devanand singing “Har fikar ko dhuye mai urata chala gya”, I went for smoke after that and suddenly something struck in my mind, lets smoke 100 cigrette in one day. And next day from the early morning I have started smoking after crossing 50 my lungs start begging for their life but I have forced them to make my 100. I was not the position to celebrate my hundred. But still I have done my 100 and but else field an IT professional can prove himself. Anxiety of work, late stay what else IT professional can achieve.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #0b5394;">Words are the most powerful thing in world.</span><br />
<span style="color: #0b5394;">Word “I love you” from your lover can give you most amazing feeling, you start feeling out of the world.</span><br />
<span style="color: #0b5394;">Harsh word or abuse can make you angry, can increase your blood circulation. </span><br />
<span style="color: #0b5394;">Words can <strong>motivate </strong>you. </span><br />
<span style="color: #0b5394;">Words can <strong>demotivate</strong> you. </span><br />
<span style="color: #0b5394;">Words can <strong>frustrate</strong> you. </span><br />
<span style="color: #0b5394;">Words can make you <strong>Rebel</strong>.</span><br />
<span style="color: #0b5394;">Words can make you <strong>follower</strong>.</span><br />
<span style="color: #0b5394;">Your words can make you a great <strong>leader</strong>.</span><br />
<span style="color: #0b5394;">So its our responsibility to use right word at right place in right tone. Even after using right word we didn't get right result. After delivering your words ball is no more in your court. Now it depends upon other how he/she accept the words. Its all depends upon the amount of stress on each word.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #0b5394;">Lets take an example to understand it better:</span><br />
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<span style="color: #0b5394;">Sentence: <strong>Who told that, I have ripped your shirt.</strong></span><br />
<span style="color: #0b5394;">Now start giving stress on each word one by one</span><br />
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<span style="color: #0b5394;">1.<strong>Who </strong>told that, I have ripped your shirt.</span><br />
<span style="color: #0b5394;">In this stress is on word <strong>Who</strong>. It means who is the culprit, who said that or who has complained.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #0b5394;">2.Who told that, <strong>I</strong> have ripped your shirt.</span><br />
<span style="color: #0b5394;">In this stress is on word <strong>I</strong>. It means your shirt has been ripped but I didn't do that, it might be done by someone else.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #0b5394;">3.Who told that, I have <strong>ripped</strong> your shirt.</span><br />
<span style="color: #0b5394;">In this the stress is on word <strong>ripped.</strong> It means I have done that but not ripped your shirt, I have done something else with your shirt.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #0b5394;">4.Who told that, I have ripped <strong>your </strong>shirt.</span><br />
<span style="color: #0b5394;">In this the stress is on word <strong>your</strong>. It means I have done that but not with your shirt, I have ripped someone else shirt.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #0b5394;">So guys use stress but on right word, otherwise meaning will change.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #444444;">One of the most important steps to achieving your goals in life is to develop a strong sense of self confidence. This does not however involve becoming loud or arrogant. On the contrary, people with genuine self confidence are usually calm and self assured and do not need to 'big note' themselves.</span><br />
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<strong><span style="color: #b45f06;">1. Visualise Yourself As The Person You Want To Be</span></strong><br />
<span style="color: #444444;">Each morning spend a few minutes visualising yourself as the person you want to be. Think about the way you dress, the way you carry yourself and the way you interact with other people. Seeing yourself as the person you want to become is the first step towards building self confidence.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #444444;"><strong><span style="color: #b45f06;">2. Self Confidence Statement</span></strong></span><br />
<span style="color: #444444;">After visualising yourself as the person you want to be, read the following statement out loud:</span><br />
<span style="color: #444444;">"I know I have the ability to achieve my major goal in life. Therefore today,</span><br />
<span style="color: #444444;">I demand of myself persistent and continuous action towards achieving my goal"</span><br />
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<span style="color: #444444;">Reading this statement out loud is a great way to start your day in a confident state of mind.</span><br />
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<strong><span style="color: #b45f06;">3. Dress Well</span></strong><br />
<span style="color: #444444;">One of the most effective ways to instantly improve your level of self confidence is to dress well and to make the decision to always be well groomed. This does not mean you have to go out and buy a whole new wardrobe. Instead, just focus on gradually building up a small collection of good quality clothes. Also remember that simple accessories such as a tie clip or necklace can make a big difference to the way you look and feel.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #444444;"><strong><span style="color: #b45f06;">4. Positive Posture</span></strong></span><br />
<span style="color: #444444;">Another powerful way to build your sense of self confidence is to stand up straight and lose the slouch that many of us have acquired over the years. While you may be able to make a change to your posture by simply becoming aware of it, the best way to make a long lasting change to your posture is to practice yoga or pilates.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #444444;"><strong><span style="color: #b45f06;">5. Move With Purpose</span></strong></span><br />
<span style="color: #444444;">A simple but effective tip for increasing your levels of self confidence is to always move with a sense of purpose. In his book 'The Magic of Thinking Big', David Schwartz recommends walking 25% faster than normal. Having a spring in your step lets people know that you have important things to do and actually makes you feel more confident as you go about your daily business.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #444444;"><strong><span style="color: #b45f06;">6. Become A Participant</span></strong></span><br />
<span style="color: #444444;">Have you ever noticed that in most meetings or groups, people immediately head towards the back of the room so that they can remain as inconspicuous as possible? A great way to increase your visibility and sense of self confidence is to make the decision to always sit towards the front of the room and be a participant. When you have something to say - don't be afraid to say it.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #444444;"><strong><span style="color: #b45f06;">7. Connect With Confidence</span></strong></span><br />
<span style="color: #444444;">Another way to quickly improve your self confidence is to practice making a strong first impression. When you meet someone face-to-face, look them directly in the eye, smile broadly, shake hands firmly and say, "Hi Jim, nice to meet you".</span><br />
<span style="color: #444444;">Similarly, you can sound more confident on the phone by answering, "Good morning Carol Jones speaking" instead of simply saying "Hello"</span><br />
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<strong><span style="color: #b45f06;">8. Build Your Success File</span></strong><br />
<span style="color: #444444;">Occasionally your self confidence will take a hit when something doesn't work out the way you hoped. One of the best ways to repair your self confidence in this situation is to keep a folder outlining your past achievements and successes. You should also include any positive feedback that you've received from others.</span><br />
<span style="color: #444444;">As you review your success file and fill your mind with positive comments, your doubts and insecurities will quickly disappear and your self confidence will be restored.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #444444;"><strong><span style="color: #b45f06;">9. Preparation</span></strong></span><br />
<span style="color: #444444;">The BIG secret to being self confident that people rarely talk about is - preparation. The more you prepare and practice for an event, the more self confident you will become.</span><br />
<span style="color: #444444;">If you are worried about an upcoming event, use your apprehension as a stimulus to take action and practice, practice, practice. The simple but powerful truth is that self confidence grows through repetition and experience.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #444444;">If you implement some or all of these 9 techniques you'll gradually develop a greater sense of self confidence which in turn will help you to pursue and achieve your most important life goals.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #444444;">Until next time,</span><br />
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<span style="color: #444444;">Dare To Dream!</span>Ramanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08367518657994244207noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28690297.post-5742387400417772522010-03-08T00:58:00.000-08:002010-03-09T20:36:59.345-08:00The Things you like or Don't like about me- Closed NowHey guys I need your feedback for self actualization. I like to improve myself, so please share your views about. All positive or negative comments are welcome.<br />
After getting lot of postive points, I am hiding comments and stoping any feedback.Ramanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08367518657994244207noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28690297.post-34496075557821478522009-11-18T20:26:00.000-08:002010-03-11T01:23:59.305-08:00GOD is a concept!When I was believer of God, lot of question lingered in my mind.<br />
Where we will go after death?<br />
Will we go according to our religion?<br />
Will Hindu go to "Swarg" , Muslim to "Jannat" and Christen to "Heaven" and different God welcome them over there. It is really hard to believe on this.<br />
What will happen if i do all sins as a Hindu and after that i convert to any other religion and start doing virtue. How different God keep track my account do they share information like our Bank, which give you loan after confirming with other banks. It seems to be quite funny.<br />
If everyone go to same place then why intelligent people fights for religion.<br />
Why these communal riot happen?<br />
Those all things happen when we keep blind faith on our GOD.<br />
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After analyzing lot of situations and circumstances, I came to this point human needs moral support.<br />
When no one with us and we feel very low in our lives or we fail every time we try in that situation we need someone to share things with us. To handle that situation there is a concept and that is GOD.<br />
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We must have heard a lot of times "God helps those who helps themselves".<br />
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GOD is the name of faith and believe ,if we start believing on ourselves and we have faith on our act. I did not think we need to pray GOD or freak around temples for anything. To believe on this concept we must have great confidence on ourselves.<br />
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Critics are most welcome :)<br />
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<input id="gwProxy" type="hidden" /><!--Session data--><input id="jsProxy" onclick="jsCall();" type="hidden" /><div id="refHTML"></div>Ramanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08367518657994244207noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28690297.post-1148635963873680432006-05-26T02:32:00.000-07:002006-05-26T02:32:43.883-07:00Hi Raman Here!<a href="http://koolraman.blogspot.com/">Hi Raman Here!</a>Ramanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08367518657994244207noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28690297.post-1148509404509818112006-05-24T15:18:00.000-07:002009-08-07T09:09:26.170-07:00Hi Raman K Thakur Here!<a href="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/2777/3043/1600/8b59.jpg"><strong><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0);"><img style="margin: 0px 0px 10px 10px; float: right;" alt="" src="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/2777/3043/320/8b59.jpg" border="0" /></span></strong></a><strong></strong><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0);"><strong></strong></span><span style="color: rgb(204, 0, 0);"><br /><br /><br /></span><span style="color: rgb(204, 0, 0);"></span><span style="color: rgb(204, 0, 0);"></span>Ramanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08367518657994244207noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28690297.post-1148508751426264172006-05-24T15:11:00.000-07:002006-05-24T15:12:31.426-07:00My Different View Of thinking<strong><span style="color:#cc0000;"></span></strong>Ramanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08367518657994244207noreply@blogger.com2